on love

falling in love is fun … staying in love is hard work… keeping love is a mission close to impossible…

Published by nadiaharhash

Exploring my own Shoes ... somehow my walk , my way ... Being a woman is one thing . One important thing of originally two things. However, living in a global patriarchal dominance makes one thing dominant of another . A lifetime struggle of women resilience for being the one thing they are Women . All the resilience of being a woman is another ONE thing . For being a Moslem woman is another thing . Being a Moslem woman living in an Occupied land is definitely a totally other thing. What if you add divorce to this ? Being a Woman, a Moslem , a Palestinian and Divorced … makes the introduction to living in my shoes… Living in a Shoe of a Woman. PS. English is not my first language.. I know I often need to edit , however, there is something in the power of the 'click send' button.. ever since I did it the first time .. I enjoy clicking directly from my heart...unedited...

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  1. Deep wisdom in your words, milady…. It certainly echoes my own experience….

    May love reside in your house always….


  2. ‘Marriage is an ordeal; it means yielding,time and time again.That is why it is a sacrament: you give up your personal simplicity to participate in a relationship. And when you are giving, you are not to the other person:you are giving to the relationship.And if you realize that you are in a relationship just as the other person is,then it becomes life building,a life fostering and enriching experience,not an impoverishment because you are giving to somebody else.This is the challenge of marriage. Each helping each other to flower’
    No standard archetypes allowed!
    Good luck..

  3. Dear Nadiya,

    How are you doing?

    Can you send me your post from a couple months ago on falling in love? I thought it was really great and wanted to read it again.

    From just outside Brussels, Michael

    Sent from my iPhone


    1. As we fall in love … Something within our rationality falls with that fall . We become stupid, ridiculous and demanding for the impossible. We enjoy the simplest moves and we get devastated by the simplest unintentional behaviors. We become
      generous and yet we get obsessive . Our expectations rise and our limitations become invisible , but our capacity remains limited .. As we remain just humans .

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