In the Shadows of men في ظلال الرجال

المجتمع يحبك مظلومة.

وويلك إذا ما كنت أنت التي بادرت إلى الطلاق. فبعد المسح الإجتماعي الثقافي الأخلاقي عن تصرفاتك ودرء الشبهات بالخيانة ، يقف المجتمع أمامك كالبنيان المرصوص مكتف اليدين بجدار نسائي مكون من أقرب النساء في حياتك . وتبدأ سلسلة الهجوم كالمدافع الأرضية والجوية. بلا رأفة ولا رحمة . كيف تجرؤين ؟ وما ينتهي الهجوم حتى يخرج الجميع بنتيجة مختلفة تماما عن الحقيقة الأولى : ” طلقها” . هو دائما من يطلق ، حتى لو رمته المرأة بالشارع. هو دائما من يطلق ، حتى لو مسكته بجرم الزنا متلبسا فيه . هو دائما من يطلق حتى لو فرقتهما المحكمة لاستحالة العيش ولخلله الواضح وآفاته السابقة لإسمه وشكله.

أنت مطلقة.




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وتحملي تبعيات جريمتك باتخاذ هكذا قرار . أردت التخلص من ثعلب ماكر مكر عليك الحياة ، تفضلي وعيشي بين الضباع.

Society wants you oppressed.

Woe to you, if you initiated the divorce. After the social and cultural examination of your behavior, and after warding off suspicions of your betrayal, society stands in front of you like a solid cement structure supported by a wall made up of the women closest to you. And then the systematic attack begins, like cannons, showing no mercy or clemency. How dare you? And the moment the aggression ends, the perceived reality changes: “He divorced her.” He is always the one who divorces. Even if she dumped him onto the streets. He is always the one who divorces, even if she caught him committing adultery. He is always the one who divorces, even if the court forced them to split due to irreconcilable differences and his obvious flaws and defects.

You are divorced.

Endure the consequences of the crime of making such a decision. You wanted to get rid of the sly fox who conned you. Here you go… come and live among hyenas.

Published by nadiaharhash

Exploring my own Shoes ... somehow my walk , my way ... Being a woman is one thing . One important thing of originally two things. However, living in a global patriarchal dominance makes one thing dominant of another . A lifetime struggle of women resilience for being the one thing they are Women . All the resilience of being a woman is another ONE thing . For being a Moslem woman is another thing . Being a Moslem woman living in an Occupied land is definitely a totally other thing. What if you add divorce to this ? Being a Woman, a Moslem , a Palestinian and Divorced … makes the introduction to living in my shoes… Living in a Shoe of a Woman. PS. English is not my first language.. I know I often need to edit , however, there is something in the power of the 'click send' button.. ever since I did it the first time .. I enjoy clicking directly from my heart...unedited...

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